Monday, March 31, 2014

Letter #25 (March 10, 2014)

So this week has been lots of fun! I love Sister Child, she's so funny! Apparently I'm her littlest companion yet, and she's definitely the tallest companion that I could get. It is so fun.

Here's something that she said "there is a rule in the white handbook that you are always breaking?" What?! "Never be alone with a Child!" Corny, but it made me laugh. She's so silly.

Glendora seems like a really great area. The ward is awesome! They are SO missionary minded! We don't have to struggle to find members for our lessons and they are all working on people for us to teach. 

We are teaching an cute old couple right now who referred themselves. It's crazy. She wanted to learn how to become a Mormon, so she asked her upstairs neighbor (who is a member) how to do it! So the sisters started teaching her a while ago. She has already been taught all of the lessons and watches BYU tv on a regular basis. BUT. She hasn't been to church yet. She has a load of physical problems and so has trouble getting out of her house. BUT. She sent her husband in her place (it doesn't work that way, but there you go) a couple of weeks ago and now he wants to be baptized! He came home and said "how much you wanna bet they'll baptize me before they baptize you?" So we taught him the first lesson on Saturday and then he came to church again yesterday. It was so awesome!

And then there's our fourteen year old investigator. He has also had all of the lessons, but can't be baptized because his dad won't sign the permission slip. He apparently carries the permission slip in his wallet everywhere he goes. He wants to serve a mission and is already trying to share the gospel with his friends and he's not even baptized yet! It's really sad, but I think that him carrying the slip with him is the sweetest thing that I've ever heard.

I'm really loving being in Glendora already. My last two areas were pretty dead, but there really seems to be a lot of good things happening here! I'm so excited to be a part of it!

I love and miss you all!

~Sister Kretchman

PS- Someone should send me The Lamb of God CDs. They are SO good. We're borrowing them from some members right now. There's this one song by Mary Magdalene that I want to learn/sing really badly. It's so pretty. 

PPS- Someone should also send me The Messiah. That is all.

Anna and her new comp:


 The whipped cream game:



And Chad and Sarah. They are basically the best people ever. He's the ward mission leader in Pasadena, and she's his wife. He helped orchestrate the music in The Hobbit and is now working on Godzilla! They're the ones that I invited myself over to birthday dinner. Sarah drove me to Glendora at 7:50 in the morning. You have to be a pretty awesome person to do that.

And one more. This is the Ngos. They are Sarah's parents and they are just as awesome as Chad and Sarah are! AND Brother Ngo has an I'm a Mormon video. Cool huh?

Two of her areas on on street corner:


Letter #24 (March 4, 2014)

Well hello there everyone! I am writing you from Glendora, which is where I live now! My new-companion-every-transfer streak is still going! I am now with Sister Child who is our medical missionary. She is from SLC and is 6'2" which makes the two of us an interesting sight since I'm one of the smallest people in the mission (not height wise, I'm 5'5", but I look shorter than I really am because I'm so tiny.) It's a lot of fun, we're already teasing each other. 

So transfers were CRAZY this time because the whole Glendora zone was recruited to clean up a bunch of mud. Basically a mountain nearby caught on fire and then it rained a ton, so mudslides occurred. So I had to either transfer on Tuesday instead, or get to Glendora by 8:30 AM. So I did the latter because there was already too much going on on Tuesday for Sister Lee because she is training and picking up her trainee today. Luckily Pasadena ward has the best person in the world in it and she picked me up at 7:45 yesterday morning and drove me to Glendora where I quickly unloaded and then headed out to "muck mud." So I spent all day yesterday sweeping muddy water down someone's driveway/into their pool, and then passing huge buckets of dirt down a hill while avoiding beating hit in the head by flying empty buckets. It was actually really fun, but really exausting too. We are all SO sore today! Plus I hit my elbow really badly off of a screw that was sticking out of this little retaining wall that was holding up the dirt that we were shoveling into the buckets that were being passed down the assembly line. It's swollen a little bit, but I don't think that I broke anything. We might be doing more of all of that tomorrow. I'm not really sure how that will work out since our whole zone is dead tired and sore all over, but we'll do our best!

So that's why I didn't email yesterday. And now I don't have much time. I might write some more tomorrow, we'll see.

I love you and miss you all!

~Sister Kretchman

Letter #23 (February 24, 2014)

Where to start? As you know from last week's email, my week didn't
start put too great. Well, it went from bad to worse to great to
worst. I'm not even quite sure how to explain.

Maybe I'll just do an overview and then explain some things a bit more fully.

So this week I (not necessarily in this order):
Talked to a nun
Broke out into hives
Started teaching a dwarf actress
Got pulled over by the world's nicest cop
Waited for the bus for over 6 hours
Started teaching a crazy person
Hosted mini missionaries

Sounds like a pretty exciting week, no?

So let me briefly explain some of these.

The missionaries in my area went to a presentation by a Catholic lady
about missionary work, which is when I talked to some really sweet
nuns. I had no idea what the lady was talking about most of the he
time, but luckily a former Catholic (he converted last year) drove us
home and explained some of it to me.

I broke out into hives after doing service for the dwarf actress that
we taught after cleaning her very dusty porch. She is amazing.
Seriously. That was definitely the most powerful lesson that I have
ever been in. She totally believes everything. All of it. She started
crying when we had her read the first vision. By the end of it, all
three of us (her, me, and my companion) we're crying. It was
incredible. The hives were worth it.

On Wednesday we had zone conference. We were sitting at the bus stop
in front of our apartment and it was NOT coming. (Which became a
reoccurring theme for the week). Luckily I was completely inspired to
call one sister from the ward who I have never talked to before. She
happened to be right in our neighborhood. Which doesn't happen, ever,
because we live 15 minutes (driving) out of our area. Buts he happened
to be there. It was crazy. Well on the way to the conference, we get
pulled over out of the blue. She hadn't done anything wrong. We'll
apparently one of the tail lights was out. She's scrambling for the
registration (it was her daughter's car, not hers) when the cop asked
where we were going. She says "I'm driving some missionaries to a
meeting" and he immediately was like "well, I don't want to keep
you,here's your license, have a great day!" What?!?! We got pulled
over by good cop. Seriously.

Heavenly Father definitely helped us out 100% with that one.

So basically we take the same bus a couple if times a day. It goes
straight from out apartment to the metro Goldline station. The only
one that can take us to our area. Well, it's been anywhere from 45
minutes to an hour late every single time we try to take it. It's
awful. And getting rides from members is really difficult because we
do live so far away and everyone in the wad is super busy all the
time. So we've been getting really frustrated with that.

And then there's our other new investigator. I'm not going to go into
details, but let's just say that I have been even more tired than
usual, have had a steady migraine, and have been on the verge of tears
for most of the week. And I'm actually handling it pretty we'll
considering. There's no good way to explain, so I'll leave it at that.
She's getting baptized on March 22 though, which is really exciting.

And finally, we hosted some mini missionaries this weekend! Four young
women came to our pad Friday night and then one came out with each of
us for the day on Saturday. Luckily that was the one time that the bus
decided to actually come on time. It was actually really fun! I
honestly wasn't too excited at first, only because I was completely
exhausted from the rest of the week (we had just had our second lesson
with the afore mentioned investigator, we taught her twice and then
she came to church yesterday). But it was nice, the young woman that I
had was really great. She didn't complain at all, even though it was a
crazy amount of walking (I took advantage of having an un-injured
comp, poor Sister Lee has been such a trooper, but it has been really
difficult to do a lot of walking) and we didn't even veto teach any
one. Although I wish that I could tell her that the less active member
that we stopped by came to church yesterday! I was so excited! He
didn't stay for all three hours because he felt out of place I his
jeans and plaid shirt, but he said that he'll definitely come next
week In a white shirt and slacks! But anyway, the mini missionary was
great and I really enjoyed just having a less hectic, regular day in
the life of a missionary. The rest of the week definitely has not been
the norm, in good and bad ways.

Anyhow, I hope that you didn't fall asleep reading the novel that I
just wrote. I'm sorry for complaining so much, I really am so grateful
to actually have some people to teach and to be on my mission. I am
definitely learning a whole lot of patience right now.

Please pray for me and my companion. We really really need it.

I love you all so much! Write me! I didn't have any letters this week!

~Sister Kretchman

Ps- I wasn't able to send my weekly email to everyone last week, so
I'll resend it.


Her and her comp at Panera Bread:





Letter #22 (February 17, 2014)

We'll hello there! As you can probably tell from the subject line,
this is being sent from my new iPad mini! Crazy huh? I don't really
like doing email like this though because... The iPad doesn't seek to
have my contact groups, so I have to actually put people in here
individually. And I only have the emails of people who emailed me
since I got this on Friday. So I'll have to get that figured out.

I also don't like typing on this very much, although I've had some fun
autocorrects already! But please be aware that any typos/random words
are due to using a touch screen.

But anyway. The iPad is actually pretty nice in a lot of ways. It's
funny though because we're a pilot program (just like for Fb and not
having cars) so this is the .7 model or something like that. Not even
1.0 yet. As such, there are a bunch of glitches still. It's pretty
interesting. It's nice having pretty much all of our info all in one
little device though. I'm still getting kind of bittersweet feelings
about not carrying around physical scriptures though. I love my paper
scriptures, but they are really heavy. Especially considering that we
are walking most of the time and can't use a backpack. So it's nice
that my bag is so much lighter! And I love that I can have Mormon
messages with me all the time. Handy!

Anyway, this week has been so crazy! Sister Lee fell wiped out on her
bike on Wednesday and scraped her leg up really badly. Then I wiped
out on the way back to our pad. I'm fine though, I just have some
little scratches on my legs and a bruise. Not even photo worthy. We
took picture of hers though as soon as we got home. It's pretty gnarly
looking.

I also broke the garbage disposal yesterday morning. But not until
after cleaning up spilled milkshake from all over the kitchen. I was
putting dishes away out of our drying rack to make room for the dishes
that I was about to wash when I knocked over some cutting boards that
were propped up behind the rack. They turned the garbage disposal on,
which has a couple of spoons in it. I quickly turned it off, took the
spoons out (threw them away) and tried the disposal again. First it
made funny noises and water started gushing out if the side down into
the drain, then it just stopped all together. Yikes. I left a message
not the housing sister's phone this morning. I'm slightly terrified
for the return call.

Then this morning the blinds in front of our sliding door broke.

Hopefully this means that we'll find a new investigator this week!

Speaking of which! A former investigator randomly texted us on
Thursday, asking if we can meet! So we did. She seems pretty cool, but
we're not sure how really committed she will be yet. Hoping for the
best! Then, we sort of picked up a new investigator at church
yesterday! There's a young man in the ward who is awesome at inviting
friends to church. He just baptized his best friend before Christmas.
Well, he's been bringing another friend to church, and he said that
he'd take the lessons from us! So we're working on setting something
up. We'll teach him at that young man's house most likely.

So it's been a really exciting week! In both good and bad ways, but
I'm just really excited for the good!

Anyway, that's all for now! I'm going to see if Brillante can get on
here to send this to the rest of my mission list!

I love and miss you all!

~Sister Kretchman



Letter #21 (February 10, 2014)

First of all, let me thank everyone for your birthday wishes! I can't believe that I'm not a teenager anymore! It's crazy. I can't say that I'm a 19 year-old missionary anymore. Sad.

Anyway, now that that's out of my system...

My birthday was pretty nice. The sisters that I live with showered me with balloons (which I finally popped this morning because I didn't know what to do with them) and I had a great birthday dinner with my ward mission leader and his wife. They (Chad and Sarah) are my favorite people in this ward. Sarah is only a couple of years older than me and she's awesome! We were her first ever dinner guests! They moved into their little house last month (I helped them paint/clean/overhaul the living room) and they just got the cutest puppy of my life this week. His name is Copeland and he is seriously too cute to be allowed. It was great though, because I'm not allowed to hold babies, but I can sure hold an adorable puppy! Anyway, Sarah made us lasagna and the PB chocolate cake that I have every year. It was delicious and I converted Chad to it. It was great too because they invited some non-member friends to the dinner, so my birthday dinner was fun AND productive. It doesn't get better than that! We had a great discussion about why we have the Book of Mormon. Hopefully something we said will help their friends to come closer to Christ. 

Guess what! We're getting Ipads on Friday! I have kind of mixed feelings about it. I'm excited in some aspects, but most of the things that I've been excited for require Wifi, which we don't have most of the time. We'll be popping into McDonald's and laundromats a lot. Or awkwardly sitting in Starbucks, resisting the urge to teach everyone in there about the Word of Wisdom. 

So in the future, I'll probably be emailing from an Ipad mini. Which I don't like either because I hate typing on touch screens. I'd buy a keyboard, but I've heard that they're super expensive. If anyone happens to stumble upon a cheap one on Amazon or something, let me know!

Update on Ebonee:

She still hadn't been responding to us at all, but she wrote Happy Birthday on my wall, so I seized the opportunity and wrote to her one more time. She responded! We're going to give her a little bit more time and then try stopping by again or something. Hopefully we'll be able to start meeting with her again!

Other than that, there's not much happening right now. We work really hard every day but are still struggling to find anyone to teach. Hopefully things will start to pick up. 

I love you all so much!

Happy Valentine's Day! (It doesn't mean much out here, but I hope that you all have a good one!)

Borrowing an Elders sweater while caroling:

The temperature on Christmas:

How they did heart attacks on Christmas

Knocking too hard:

The float she worked on for the Rose Parade:

Her favorite float:


Letter #20 (February 3, 2014)

 I don't have much time, we have a dinner appointment soon. So I'll try to be brief.

Update on Ebonee:

We taught her Book of Mormon on Tuesday. She seemed really excited to read it. Then we were going to teach her about the Plan of Salvation on Thursday. But she didn't show. And she wasn't at home. We were worried, but felt like everything was okay when we prayed about it. We Facebooked her the next day and she told us that she had been at the hospital with her sister who was sick. So she really wasn't just skipping out on us. So we rescheduled for Saturday. She didn't show again. She wasn't at home again. We Facebooked her, but she hasn't answered even though it says that she saw the message. So we don't know what's going on with her. We knew that Satan would push really hard on her once we set a baptismal date, but we didn't think that it would take effect so quickly. Hopefully we'll be able to see her this week.

In other news California is in a drought right now. It has rained a teensy bit this week, but hardly at all. The one day was really funny though. So Sister Lee is from Utah, where it rarely rains. So the one day it was misting, maybe sprinkling, barely. Well we go into a building and someone asks if it's raining. I say "it's sprinkling." At the same time, Sister Lee says "it's pouring." I just kind of looked at her and started laughing. She'll be really surprised when it actually does pour. Speaking of which, all of California fasted for rain this Sunday. I carried around an umbrella all day waiting for it to rain. It rained a teensy bit, but not really. Even Sister Lee can't complain about how much it rained. Hopefully we'll get some rain soon though!

Anyway, that's all for today. Sorry it's so short! I'll try to attach a picture or two of me and my comp.

I love you all!

~Sister Kretchman





Letter #19 (January 27, 2014)

Hi everyone!

This week has been so busy! It's been great! I really feel like things are going to start picking up a lot. Last transfer was kind of hard because of the office situation (along with some other factors). It's crazy though because I've never been in this area without a car, so Sister Lee and I are having to basically start from scratch. We've been doing a lot of figuring out this past week. It's really nice not having a car again though! I mean, it's tough because we now have to figure out the buses, which members are available to give rides at what times, when the heck we eat because we don't like going home to eat since we live so far out of our area, etc. Last night we sent out a huge text to the ward asking who could have us over for dinner and we got a great response, so hopefully we won't have to worry about meals so much because we'll be able to stay in the area. 

The only downer is that Sister Lee doesn't have a bike yet (her last area wasn't conducive to biking, so she just never ordered one), so we're having to walk a lot more. Walking is good sometimes, especially on busy streets with lots of people, but in most places biking is more effective because you can get places faster, but still stop and talk to people. So she requested a loaner bike until she gets her own. We're trying to figure out where to leave our bikes though, because with buses, we can't be sure that the bike rack will be empty, and we don't want to wait for a bus with our bikes and then not be able to get on because the rack is full. So we need to be able to leave our bikes in our area every day. We'll figure it out though I'm sure. Sister Lee has been great at getting things figured out. She has been out for nine months, so she knows what she's doing. It's also nice because since we're both fairly new to the area, we can kind of figure out how we want to do things/what works best for us. Last transfer it was kind of hard because one of my companions had been in Pasadena for her whole mission (7 months) and so she kind of took control of everything since she knew the area, members, etc best. Which meant that me and my other companion didn't get to learn the area as well. But now Sister Lee and I are kind of figuring things out together, so we've been able to change things as needed which has been really helpful.

But anyway. The reason I titled this email "The Restoration" is for two reasons. One because of our new investigator, and two because of a Young Men/Young Women activity that we did this week.

So our investigator:

Her name is Ebonee, she was a referral and she is amazing! She is an 18 black girl who is just so ready. So apparently some missionaries talked to her on the bus the one day, got her address, and then Ebonee had to get off to switch buses. Well she gets on the next bus, and there happens to be a Restoration pamphlet sitting on one of the seats! She immediately fell in love with the cover picture (I'll attach it), picked it up and looked through it, and took it home with her. She didn't even know that the pamphlet was connected to the same church that the missionaries that she talked to represent. CRAZY. So we got a referral from those missionaries and stopped by. She didn't say much, but was really sweet and said that we could come back. 

So we taught her the Restoration on Saturday. As soon as Sister Lee pulled out the pamphlet, her face lit up and she started smiling. That's when she told us about finding it on the bus. She thinks that it is really cool that Joseph Smith got to see Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ face to face. She just believes it. She didn't question it, just immediately started talking about how cool it was. So after the lesson, we knelt down and had her pray and ask if Joseph Smith really did see them. We told her that when she finished praying, we would just sit silently so that she could listen to the Spirit. When she said "amen" we did just that. I just looked at my lap for a while, and then finally looked at her. Her eyes were still closed and she looked like she was really listening, really trying to feel something. It was so powerful to me. Finally she looked up and we asked how she felt. She said that she felt really happy and that as she was waiting for an answer, the wind started to blow and she feels like that was an answer. She really is incredible.

She came to church the next day (yesterday). She told us that she read through the pamphlet (which we gave her) right after we left and that she kept turning back to the picture of the first vision. So we showed her an even better picture of the first vision that's in the foyer. Watching her face and seeing the wonder and excitement in her eyes really made me appreciate the magnitude of the first vision even more. 

I don't think that she got much out of sacrament meeting, but we made a return appointment for tomorrow. She is just so incredible. She's so humble and teachable, I am so blessed to have the opportunity to teach her.

Anyway, then there's the YM/YW activity. It was my idea to do it. I remember one fireside when I was in Young Women's where we did a tracting role play. I don't remember the rest of the fireside, but I do remember the role play. They put us into companionships and then sent us tracting around the church building. The different classrooms were "houses" and they had members of the ward as the investigators. One person was really busy, one was really rude, but eventually, someone would let you in and you would teach them. That is something that I always remembered doing, so I thought that it would be cool to do it with the youth here. Pasadena and East Pasadena wards had already planned to have a combined activity for that Wednesday, so it was perfect because we were able to do it with all of the youth in both wards. 

We didn't to tracting, but instead we first: had a discussion about talking to your friends about the gospel, and second: had them role play a seven minute Restoration. I really hope that it was beneficial. I have heard a few comments from the leaders that they feel like it went really well and helped them a lot. I just really thought a lot about when I was in high school trying to share the gospel with my friends. I have always had a huge love for this gospel and was very excited to share it with others. But now as a missionary, I am able to see ways that my discussions with my friends could have been more beneficial. As a born and raised member of the church, I didn't realize that the biggest difference, the most important thing, and reason that we have the true church and others don't, is the Restoration. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints is the one true church because we have prophets. We have the priesthood authority from God to preach His gospel. When I would talk to my friends, it would go anywhere from polygamy, to the word of wisdom, to the plan of salvation, etc. If I had realized then just how important the Restoration was, I think that I may have been able to help my friends understand better. So I had the youth give me a list of things that they get questions about a lot about the church. And then I showed them how to relate any question to the Restoration. Because if people really understand that we have the exact same church that Christ established so long ago with the same authority that He had (and help them connect the fact that God had a pattern of calling prophets all throughout the Bible, so why wouldn't He call a prophet to guide us now?) then they might be more willing to learn more.

Anyway, now that I have written a nice long tangent, I should probably stop writing so that you can all move on with your lives.

I love and miss you all a bunch!

Teach someone about the Restoration this week!